JENNIFER VS EVELYN.... FRIEND OR FOE???

My thoughts and prayers for these two lovely ladies...

Okay so Basketball Wives is back!!!! I must admit its one of my
favorite shows!!! So opening season last night we learned that
Jennifer and Evelyn are no longer friends!!! Well, first let me say I
have had the pleasure of meeting and interviewing both Jennifer and
Shaunie in the past. They were both lovely ladies!!!

I truly am happy that it seems like Jennifer has a stronger backbone this season but I do understand Evelyn's frustration with their friendship and I won't go as far as saying, "Either your my friend or my Enemy", if I was Evelyn than the friendship would have to be OVER!!! Let me explain why.... REAL friendship has a must ingredient of TRUST! Period!!! THE END!

I am by no means as famous nor as popular as Evelyn or
Jennifer but I have had my share of shady friends and I can only
imagine how hard it is for those two women to trust the people who are
now entering their lives. If they have been friends for over a decade
than the fact that Jennifer had a blog in which negative comments were
made about Evelyn is not KOOL.

I have 5 core friends who I have known
for over a decade and I trust them with my life! I can tell them
ANYTHING without ever worrying about it being leaked or told to
anyone else. And don't get it twisted! We are not "yes" friends where
we are always saying the nicest things to each other! We argue and
disagree all the time! But we do that in private! In public we are sisters!!!

I don't care if I cussed one of my best friends out YOU
will never have that privilege in my presence unless YOU want to get
cussed out! LOL! That's  what true friendship is about. 

Jennifer and Evelyn can both take a lesson from Beyonce, Kelly and Michelle.No matter how hard the world tries to make Kelly and Michelle be jealous of Beyonce's success I have never once heard either of them say anything negative about Beyonce! They have always applauded her success and seem to be extremely happy for their "sister" as they call her. That's what real friendship is about. It's unbreakable!!! So I say all that to say, if Jennifer and Evelyn were to ever become friends again they both would have to humble themselves and make some true changes in their behavior towards each other.

Evelyn would have to tone down her attitude and understand you can't talk down to someone you love. And Jennifer would need to stop being a careless friend in which she is caught talking publicly about Evelyn. 

 And you know what makes me sad??You can tell its "new friends" that are ruining a friendship that was built off a decade. I know people be in Jennifer's ear and are like, "Girl why do you let her talk to you like that! Stop being her puppet!" Hence where the new swagger has probably come from.

And Evelyn is use to the Jennifer who kisses her behind so this new woman who doesn't  is a stranger to her. In the end, drama makes good reality TV and to our benefit pure entertainment but throwing away a decade long friendship for a show that one day will become a thing of the past actually makes me sad. I pray that they find their way back to a friendship that can stand the test of times....